Since the last entry, I've thought of a few more bits I think are important to include.
Bug and pest free. Open floor plan with nice air flow on lovely days when the windows are open. Lots of natural light. Space close to our house or unit where the boys can safely ride their bikes and scooters. good clean sidewalks in our neighborhood that go to at least one place all 4 of us enjoy(in walking distance), like a nice park, cafe, reasonably healthy restaurant, a friends house we visit often, library, Barnes and Noble, Borders, ice rink, indoor pool with kiddie area.